That Time Your Best Friend Called You Sissy as a Plate of Àmàlà and Gbẹ̀gìrì Cooked by Your Orí

 

i.

After kindling fire from your burning, breaking heart,

Orí moulds two cauldrons from the steeliness it assumes,

and pours inside each, steaming streams of tears out of you.

Orí forages the myriad times your friend told you to straighten

your limp wrists, and you clamped your hands into manly fists

—pods concealing beans of your elegance— that Orí smashes open

for collecting, soaking, rubbing together, and peeling.

Orí pours the naked beans into a boiling cauldron.

As they cook to tenderness, Orí reaches into the moments

you curved your mouth into a bow and gathers all the arrows

of words you shot in defence, to bind into ìjábẹ.̀

With the  Ìjábẹ̀, Orí mashes the beans into a fine paste,

adds a dash of your peppery pain to taste,

sprinkles of seasoning crystallized from your will,

oil in your hips’ dream of swaying,

and gbẹ̀gìrì is ready.

 

ii.

For the àmàlà, Orí scoops your powdering self-esteem,

pours it into the second boiling cauldron till it thickens.

And with ọmọrogùn carved from the snapped branch of

your felled friendship, Orí stirs the mix;

turns, and turns, and turns

till it’s a dough the brown of your skin.

Till it stretches and sticks,

and the àmàlà is ready.

 

iii.

Where you sit cross-legged in meditation

for healing, Orí feeds your consciousness

morsel by morsel of àmàlà dipped in gbẹ̀gìrì

till you are full of yourself;

till you are… sissy.

 

 

GLOSSARY

Àmàlà – a Yorùbá meal prepared with yam or cassava flour.

Gb̀gìrì – a Yorùbá soup made from cooked peeled beans.

Orí – an inner self that embodies spiritual intuition and destiny in Yorùbá metaphysics.

ìjáb– a short broom used in mashing cooked food into smaller particles.

mrogùn – a short smooth stick used in turning or mixing food.

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